I recommend that you first learn the fundamentals of the language before working with chatbots. The issue with your conditional expression(message.content.lower() == "да" or "da")is that it is parsed as (message.content.lower() == "да") or ("da"). "da" is a non-empty string, and any non-empty string is evaluated as True. So you end up with (message.content.lower() == "да") or True. It is well-known that the expression X or True always evaluates to True. This is why your conditional operator triggers every time, as you have observed.
To fix this, you should write eithermessage.content.lower() == "да" or message.content.lower() == "da", or preferably,message.content.lower() in ("да", "da").